Ashes and Return FAQs

Yes. Some families choose to keep ashes at home, at least for a while. You can decide what feels right for your family or whānau once the ashes have been returned.

Memorial ideas

Families may choose to keep ashes, scatter them, inter them, divide them between family members, or use them as part of a later memorial. There is no need to decide immediately.

Memorial ideas

Yes. Many families choose to divide ashes between family members. If this is something you are considering, talk to us so we can explain what is possible and what you may need to arrange.

Memorial ideas

Yes. Ashes can often be buried or interred later, depending on the cemetery, local rules and family wishes. Check with the cemetery, council or place of interment for current requirements.

Memorial ideas

Ashes can often be scattered in New Zealand, but rules and expectations can vary depending on the location, land ownership, local council rules and cultural considerations. Check the relevant council or landowner guidance before scattering ashes.

Memorial ideas

After the cremation, ashes are returned to you. You can then decide whether to hold a memorial, scatter ashes, inter ashes, divide ashes among family members, or keep things private.

Memorial ideas

Ashes are returned once the cremation has taken place and they are ready for return. We will confirm the details with you during the arrangement process.

How it works